Love & Relationships

The Art Of Kissing: The Dos & Don’ts

Kissing is one of the exquisite pleasures that you get to enjoy with the one you love. It’s usually a way of showing affection towards those we love. Kissing is an art, and a good kiss has the power to make anyone weak in the knees – feel immortal even!

However, this beautiful pleasure can also be dreadful if done wrong, and that’s why you need to know the dos and don’ts before making your move.

The Dos

1. Remember Your Mints

Nobody wants to kiss someone with stinking breath – it’s ungodly! If you are on a date and you think that you might get to lock lips later, ensure that you have your breath freshener with you.

This applies to the kisses and when talking to someone, always make sure you have good breath if you want a second date.

2. Use Your Hands

Use your hands to caress your partner while kissing gently. It shows that you are not entirely lost and that you are still thinking about your partner. This will draw your partner more to you.

3. Find Your Signature Kiss

This will be like a secret code, and it’s also a sweet and cute way to initiate a make-out session with your partner if you are feeling shy to ask them directly.

4. Mix Things Up

Start soft and slow, and then accelerate. Include some lip biting and some tongue action. 

You don’t want to be a boring kisser who just alternates between pecks and needling on one lip for the entire time.

5. Kiss Your Partner When They Least Expect It

This is both sweet and cute, and it shows that you are confident enough to do it anywhere, anytime.

The Don’ts

1. Don’t Kiss When You Still Have Gum In Your Mouth

Having gum in your mouth when kissing can lead to the worst make-out session. Your partner will not be enjoying it as he or she will spend the entire time trying to avoid the gum getting stuck to their lips.

2. Don’t Let Your Teeth Crash The Party

You don’t want to cause your partner or your date any pain. If you have not mastered the art of biting the lip gently, avoid it completely.

3. Don’t Lack Enthusiasm

When you are kissing someone, and you completely lack the enthusiasm and the passion, it will almost immediately turn off your partner. Kissing is best when both partners participate. If only one party is interested in kissing, it’s a sign that something is wrong.

4. Don’t Introduce Your Saliva In The Mix

Wet kisses can be sweet and passionate, but they turn to be a disaster when they get too sloppy. Nothing is more annoying and disgusting than getting your mouth filled up with someone else’s saliva. Avoid it!

5. Don’t Start With The Tongue

Keep this in mind, especially if it’s your first date. You want to start slow, and when you have built enough intimacy, you can start introducing your techniques to the game.


When kissing someone, remember that you are both in this, so relax and stop worrying about how you will perform. Enjoy the fact that your relationship has moved upwards and be immersed at the moment. Happy kissing!

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