When you’ve been with your partner for a long time, you may run out of sexual ideas, and the bedroom stops being the exciting playfield for both of you.
You don’t even recall when you lost the enthusiasm you had when you started, thanks to the same routine you adopted in bed. You no longer know how to express affection and to you, hoping in bed and going down on it is what you do because you think you are a couple and that you should be making love.
What you need to know is that same sexual routine create predictions and man, that is a real spoiler! If this hits home, then the moment of being creative is here. Exploring in bed and treading new grounds is a way to bring back the excitement.
Let’s save your love-life with the following ideas to adopt in bed.
7 Wild Bedroom Ideas For Couples
It can be as easy as a mind-blowing position, a new toy, and new role-playing scenes that are comfortable for you.
1. Change Of Scenery
Give your bed a break. Have you tried the bathroom, kitchen counter, where you knock the utensils down to create space? Wait, and the car? It tastes even better on the couch in the living room, and magical on the floor!
Employ dominance and submission in your sexcapades. If you can’t get handcuffs, use a tie or smooth ropes to hold your partner down. Make them vulnerable and at the mercy of you. Your lover will become helpless, and you’ll enjoy watching them cry for mercy.
3. Explore Fantasies
‘How about and what ifs’ shouldn’t remain just that. Open-minded couples can relive their sexual fantasies without judgment from their lovers.
If you want to know how Anal feels like, get yourself lots and lots of lube and have the moment of your life. Remember to discuss it with your partner.
4. Ride Rough
Bring forth the monster in you. Soft and tender sex is boring, wild is fun. Let the moment speak for itself, and for once, let yourself be.
Rough rides escalate slowly, building up the sexual energy. Just lose your mind for a moment and come out of it, smiling and in love!
5. Touch Yourself
Wait till he least expects it, then run your fingers slowly, and long, all over you. Make sure he notices you. Touch those places he’s dying to touch and provoke him to come for you like a wild cat.
Ensure he doesn’t touch you soon. Torture him, stay away if he tries reaching for you and make him yearn to reach you.
Turn bold and masturbate before your partner. You’ll be building trust between you. The aftermath will be super fulfilling.
6. Eat off On Them
Be careless at least; don’t bother of how unhealthy it is. Smear ice-cream, chocolate, or honey on your lover and lick it off. It’ll turn your partner on and, hey, it’ll keep those goodies coming!
7. Use Playmates
Be bold and buy toys to play with. Incorporating the toys is a fetish, wild, and super dirty move. Vibrators, flesh torches can work on either of you. Hold them out for your partner and watch yourself get turned on super bad.
Most importantly, fall in love with your best friend! They won’t judge you when you come up with unthought-of ideas. Find ways to be comfortable around your partner.
Healthy sexual life goes a long way past missionary and the ‘sexual societal standards’ you found going on since time immemorial.